Dating, Sex Dolls And Living In The Moment

I’ve been wracking my brain on just how to begin this blog for a good week now. Anyway, being a busy escort, always hustling about, and the sort of nervous, always excited, always planning and thinking ahead type of person that I am, this topic means quite a lot to me.

It is currently 4:34 PM on Sunday December 21, (the shortest day of the year and winter solstice, might I add) and it’s strange because it will never be 4:34 PM on Sunday December 21, 2014 again. I think about this a lot. It’s so weird to imagine that every moment is genuinely unique if solely in the fact that they will never occur again.

Doggy Double Date

Doggy Double Date

When you’re little, it’s a kind of a fun, exhilarating thing to think about when people would say things like you’ll never be in this moment again, or you’ll never be this young again, or the strange concept that each moment that passes by you can’t get back, but as you get older, at least for me, it becomes a little more real and a little more scary. So instead of just relying on escorting for my sexual, and social, life, I signed up at the new dating website Doggy Double Date. And during the few dates I’ve had from the website matches, I’ve vowed to really be aware of my date, and my surroundings, for the entirety of each date. And I fulfilled those vows.

There are so many overrated, overused clich├ęs (many of which I shamefully admit are hanging on my bedroom wall) about living in the moment and being present blah blah blah, but to be honest those have never really stuck with me because those are meaningless words on some overpriced pastel painted piece of canvas.

I tend to believe you don’t really understand until you experience.

So maybe this blog and these words are meaningless jumble on a screen as well, and I don’t think any of us really know how to cherish the moment until the moment is gone (damn, this is getting kinda deep, my apologies), but hearing lots of talk of the future and planning ahead, it’s easy to lose sight of what’s right in front of you. So I put aside my male sex doll that I recently bought online at Sexdolio, telling myself to not treat sex so casually and, almost disposal. No more mounting a sex doll to “get it over with!” I’ll make real dates, and live in the moment for each moment of those dates with real men.

Sexdolio Sex Doll

Sexdolio Sex Doll

If anyone is the master of letting their mind wonder off too far into unknown places in the future, I must say I think I take the cake, but recently I’ve been trying to set my mind in place, and I would strongly recommend it.

It’s so incredibly easy to let your mind slip to what you’re doing in an hour, what you’re eating for dinner, where you’ll be in a week, a month, a year, but what about what you’re doing right now? What about life that’s going on around you as you plan for the future?

I definitely sound like an overly enthusiastic yoga instructor or some new mediocre pop artist, but take it all in — look at the people right in front of you (really look at them, so you remember the color of their eyes when you walk away), listen to people when they’re talking to you, listen to the noises of life around you.

It’s the shortest day of the year, so get up off of your ass and do something you want to remember.

Honesty In Your Relationships, Whether With An Escort Or A Pick-up

There are some pick up artists out there who in fact train that it is less complicated to bed married females than single women. I do not subscribe to their teachings. Even though it might be real, it is not the proper thing to do. It undermines the idea that being with an escort can be an “okay” thing to do. If a single guy picks up a single women, or dates an escort, no one is harmed. If a single guy picks up a married women, or if a married man dates an escort, someone (the “other” woman) is going to be hurt.

And there are loads of single ladies out there! Improving yourself as a guy, making yourself more desirable to women, and making women feel truly special is meant to be the aim. What a guy does with his information and energy is what defines the man no matter whether he is a strong, sound guy or a manipulative douchebag.

Women always highly regard a man when he is trustworthy with them. A man should be obvious on where he stands at any moment in any relationships. Never lie to gain favor, telling women what you assume they wish to hear.

Be open and honest if you are dating, or having relationships, with other people, and let the woman know that she is free to do the very same. If a women does not want that, don’t be upset with her, or fell hurt. It’s her right and her prerogative. Simply, basically, wish them all the greatest and move on. There are other fish (or escorts) in the sea. You’ll find that this honesty leaves you on pleasant terms with most of these women, even long term. Simply because you are truthful.

Escort Directory

If you find this is to hard to do, then resort to escorts rather than picking up women. Find a good escort directory that lists women in your area. They exist for every city in the country, from Dallas to Denver. With a paid date there’s no expectations of a long term relationship, no lying is necessary, and no stories or excuses need to be made up.

Your term is your word. It defines who you are. It is your track record. You should be protective of that. No girl should be able to say that you lied to her. You dodn’t have to. Not to say that you might not be pissed at a couple of them with your honesty, but that is life. Don’t cheat on a woman. You basically do not have to. You also do not have to get weak when a woman places you on the spot and questions the common query of “So, where’s this heading?” Just adhere to what you want, and be truthful. It really is that simple.

Really do not be frightened that you will have to face dropping her. The reality is, you possibly will at some point — if you are not in an area of total dedication. But that is no reason to lie to keep her about. It will only hurt her in the end, and that is not what a real man does.

If you’d like to know more about dating attitudes, read this article on the psychology of online dating.